Joeliver

[formerly Joeliver's Travels] Now a personal "internet travels" blog, so to speak.

I've Been In Mexico

Well, muchos apologias (yes, I know that isn't really the word for it) for not posting for so long. My excuse for not posting so far this week is because I went all out doing things with the Church.

Monday and Tuesday I worked with Padre Antonio to dig holes, pour cement, and hang four newly donated signs. Funny story - apparently we commissioned two to be done awhile back, then someone with mad woodcarving/burning skills did two more without us knowing it, and donated them all at the same time. Hence four signs. You can definitely tell where the Church building is though when driving down the street now!

Then yesterday (Wednesday), I went with Padre to the food bank to pick up about 1400 lbs. of food for the food pantry. We loaded, then unloaded the boxes of everything back at the church - meanwhile, even though the pantry doesn't open until noon, in the ridiculous heat, mind you, people had begun to gather outside the doors at 8 am. Because I don't speak Spanish (yet), all I could do was help sort out the food into the boxes then carry them to each person's car. I thought it would be more life-changing than that, because I had assumed the type of people that would come wouldn't have cars to put the food in. Mind you, my week was not yet over.

Today, Padre and I went across the border into Reynosa to a Catholic girls orphanage to take some donated supplies. While driving to the orphanage, Padre thought it good to take me through a bit of the real Mexico. ...Because I don't have the words, I'll just describe to you turn by turn what I saw. We crossed the border with no trouble - which is good, because apparently our government makes a lot of trouble when U.S. citizens are trying to help people in Mexico for some reason. Padre's routine route was a turn to the right, however, we instead went straight, through and around town. The first few blocks were very touristy. A Carl's Jr. (which is the equivalent of Hardee's down here - I'll get into that sometime in another post), Motorola billboards, a HoJo hotel, and three major car dealerships. From there, we got a little lost turning off of the main road into the smaller streets of the neighborhoods. Which, though I was prepared for it, at first sight, the houses seemed extremely small and dirty. We then took another street; this one less paved and more dirt. Then another one that ran alongside train tracks; the road was comprised of dirt, broken concrete, implanted pieces of cinder blocks, and trash. Along the right hand side of the road I started seeing the colorfully painted concrete houses quickly turn into faded brown properties "guarded" by crooked, broken, shabby wooden fences. Seemingly normal dressed people were walking alongside the road, coming in and out of these "homes." A block further, on the left hand side, next to the railroad tracks amongst the rocks and dirt, a freely roaming burro (donkey) is nonchalantly grazing what very little grass is available. A couple blocks further we come to what are known in Mexico as "colonias." Padre wanted to show me where they had done a health clinic/Nativity fiesta this past Christmas. (Some very small photos here If you've ever watched the scenes in Mexico from the movie "Traffic," you might have the slightest idea of what kind of poverty we're talking here. Literally, these homes are built with cardboard and scrap metal that has either been taken from the sides of abandoned warehouses or signs from failed tourist attraction shops. Some of the more affluent families have cars. No, they don't actually run, but rather are being used as spare rooms... Senor ten piedad.

We went to the orphanage, and it was beautiful. The nuns had been given a dirt plot in the middle of these colonias by the government about 25 years ago. Through donations, mucho trabajo (a lot of work) and prayer, they've developed it into a beautifully enclosed piece of safety for the girls living there. Again, I don't speak Spanish (yet), but just listening to Padre and the Senior Madre speak, I could tell the love that had been poured into those girls and that plot of dirt. Just being there, without understanding hardly a word that was spoken, I could feel the peace that surrounded it. Heaven in hell.

As Padre and I came back home, and I got in my car to pick up T for Vespers, I couldn't help but see how clean and orderly everything looked. How excessive the guy tailing me in his Mercedes Benz Roadster, and myself in my name brand clothes and air conditioned car.

I go in tomorrow morning for a third interview for a job. Now relatively I see, an insanely well-paying job. I wonder though, having experienced third world living conditions less than 10 miles from my own residence, will I even change?

Takin' Some Heat

For all y'all "midwesterners" back home, hope you be enjoyin' that nice 80 degree weather with 90% humidity. As for me, with temps hitting 105 with 60-70% humidity (I'm guessing) today, I never thought I'd actually like living in the heat! It's the kind of heat that puts you in that old western movie. Yes, I know the fellow "valley'ers" down here will scoff at me for stereotyping. But associating what would normally be something miserable with a fond memory or harmless preconcieved notion really works wonders! I've currently got the air conditoner and a small fan on "High" sitting directly in front of it cooling off my bed before I crawl in. Cactuses.. er.. cactus'? Cactus-ae?... are all over, and palm trees (though not native to the area I've been told) survive well in this "subtropical" climate. I hear it gets very pleasant in the winter months though. *sigh* I needed this kind of a change!

There are a great group of people - the only "white people in the valley" as they would call themselves - down here. I was expecting a huge culture shock and attitude adjustment as I was on my way down, but these people are just wonderful. They're not weird or really even all that different from what I'm used to back home. They're very humble, hard-working, and have a good grasp on Reality. Two of the guys and myself had our first session of Men's Group on Tuesday evening. Home brewed local ales (that rival some of the best microbrews I've tasted!) and well-initiated talk of theological ideas and living a Christian life. Truly, "where two or three are gathered."

Thank you all so much for your prayers. I can feel them. Seriously.

Among the Saints, Give Rest O Lord

Well, I'm back in Indiana once again. After having spent only four and a half days in the valley, my grandfather passed away on Wednesday night to call me back home. He's been in a state of constant and apparently incurable pain over the last year, however. So everyone seems to agree that this was the best thing for him. At the funeral service at the local First Baptist Church, my grandmother requested we play a short song to which she was recently introduced. One that you would hear at an Orthodox funeral; such a beautiful contrast of triumphant sadness. That short song is available for listening below.

My flight leaves to head back to the valley tonight. It's strange that I already miss it.

Don't Drink the Water, Drink Cerveza!

...In Mexico. Yeah. T and I strolled across the border for lunch around 12:30 this afternoon. Eh, no big deal. "Let's go to Mexico for lunch."

Yesterday we spent the afternoon and evening at South Padre Island. I had no idea it would be like this. I never really liked beaches until now. The moon over the water toward the end of the evening was simply eternal.

Consider yourself invited when/if you can make it down!

Bienvenido!

I'll do my best to post regularly with news of interesting events!